People are different. They see things differently. According to their perception of life, they judge and assume. DONT! Some of us are from earth, others from a different planet. Here are some perspectives to avoid: avoid judging success, narrowed brains see success in earning a higher salary, big house, companies, projects, etc.., others see this as a luxury that can come or go in seconds, especially after experiencing it all. Maybe this is an easier goal from the purpose that we are created for. So some try hard to communicate with god seeking to know the real path that was made for them, following the fact from the holy Quran that tells us that we will never know what we earn tomorrow. Others die with following a different direction than the beautiful one that was made for them. So success in life to some people is to work hard to enter the heavens, and through that kind of work, god provides the rest for the good living on earth. Second, don’t judge imaginative people. What is the difference between reality and imagination? If you have an answer then we assume that you have zero knowledge about this. Our definition of this is based on our limited understanding of the dimensions around us. Same as our definition of coincidence, everything is calculated and connected to certain time, we did not create the universe to know this. Third, never judge if someone is happy or depressed even if they are smiling all the time, or sad all the time. What makes you happy is not what makes others happy. Learn from this to love and not to judge with bold assumptions!